Relationship Pulse
An “ECG of communication”—updates from check-up and chat; three plain-language bands, not a partner grade.
Live PWA · ida-ai.chat
IDA: mutual respect for adult partners
A production 18+ relationship companion PWA for prevention and de-escalation—not clinical diagnosis, not surveillance. Partners start with a free relationship check-up; deeper AI support and mediation are available when they are ready. Same engine and tariffs as Teenology; copy and prompts adapted for adult couples.
- Free: relationship check-up, Relationship Pulse + Resource Battery, local diary, offline support cards, SOS routing
- Paid: AI Companion with case/sprint focus, structured micro-actions, phrase cards, and tiered crisis-safe guardrails
- Relationship Bridge: AI-assisted mediation—each side talks privately; Privacy Shield blocks raw message relay; the assistant reframes accusations into constructive needs
- Share answers: anonymized context only—help others in similar situations without exposing your private chat
Fund demo. Sign in with Google or email on ida-ai.chat — full Companion access (AI chat, Relationship Bridge, free check-up) activates automatically for 30 days. No promo code. After activation, tap Go to chat in the app or start the free relationship check-up. IDA Kit for psychology centers is a separate product on the same platform.
For adult couples
Mutual respect—not a surveillance app
Adults in relationships often reject apps that monitor messages, score partners, or feel like control. IDA is built the opposite way: communication on equal footing, not surveillance.
Surveillance apps monitor devices, relay messages, score partners, and punish. IDA gives each person a private AI coach, keeps Relationship Bridge chats separate (Privacy Shield), tracks progress through plain-language Pulse/Battery landmarks—not rankings—and moves toward one micro-step at a time.
Tagline: “Finally an app that helps us talk—not one that watches my partner.”
Guided progress
Light gamification—without guilt scores
No points, streaks, leaderboards or XP. Partners get a sense of movement through:
Resource Battery
Inner energy landmark—prompts rest before big talks when resource is low.
Case sprints & Situation Map
One focus problem at a time; context-aware quick-reply chips keep dialogue moving; sprint feedback closes each cycle.
Entry experience
Free relationship check-up (no payment required)
The default onboarding path is a short, structured prevention check-up—not clinical diagnosis and not open-ended chat.
After a few guided questions, each partner receives an express map of the situation, a Relationship Pulse and Resource Battery (three plain-language states, not scored rankings), attention zones, and one actionable step for today.
This is positioned clearly as prevention guidance, not a medical or psychiatric diagnosis.
Safety & ethics (for reviewers)
Prevention tool—not therapy, not emergency care
IDA is positioned for adult partners (18+) as communication and de-escalation support in relationships and intimacy topics. It does not replace licensed clinicians, couples therapists, or emergency responders.
Who is responsible in a crisis?
The product owner provides software with safety routing; human professionals and official services remain responsible for suicide risk, violence, abuse, and medical emergencies. In-app copy states that the AI companion is not a therapist and cannot guarantee safety.
Human escalation (tiered)
When language crosses deterministic risk thresholds, the LLM path is stopped. Harm concern (e.g. self-injury without immediate lethal intent) → stabilization and therapist framing, calm next-step chips. Acute crisis → locale-aware emergency lines (112, 988, child helplines, Samaritans)—not continued AI counselling and not one-size-fits-all 911 alarmism.
AI “Companion”—scope
Structured micro-steps, phrase cards, and bounded chat—not psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment plans. Initiator and invited partner use separate role-aware flows; Relationship Bridge does not relay private messages between parties.
What ships today
Product modules in production
AI companion (prevention coach)
Role-aware chat for initiator or invited partner—not psychotherapy. Guided sessions keep one current case/sprint focus: identify the main problem, avoid generic reassurance, move toward one concrete micro-step or ready phrase. Context-aware quick-reply chips adapt to sprint phase and crisis tier.
Relationship Bridge + Privacy Shield
Invite the other side by link. Each person speaks with their own assistant instance. Shuttle mediation—reducing blame, surfacing needs, bounded next steps. Privacy Shield enforces in code: no direct quotes or raw chat sharing across roles.
Share answer (anonymized)
Paid users can share a bot reply with others facing similar situations. Context is generalized—no names, no quotes from the private chat. Recipients get free follow-ups about their own situation.
Local diary
Structured observation log stored on the device. Entries stay local unless the user explicitly shares context with the AI layer.
Offline support cards
Scenario-based phrase cards and micro-steps for adult partners, including SOS blocks—available without network via the installed PWA.
Crisis routing (tiered)
Harm concern vs acute danger get calibrated responses: stabilization copy, therapist framing when appropriate, locale-aware emergency contacts when risk is immediate.
Privacy by design
Free tools work with minimal data exchange. Deeper features require account sign-in; diary text is not uploaded by default.
Evidence-oriented design
How outcomes are tracked
Relationship Pulse and Resource Battery update from the initial check-up, follow-up chat sessions, and optional diary patterns—designed as continuous relationship outcomes, not a one-time quiz score.
Product analytics use categorized problem types and intervention patterns only; private chat content is not exported for territorial dashboards.
Try the live product
Live PWA for fund reviewers — one link, one sign-in, full product access.